Leave yourself speechless

Get used to living.
It might sound strange and silly. It might sound exhausting. But it's worth it.
Be busy. Don't just chat with people. Tell them your stories, plans and ideas. Go do something together. Even if it might not sound like a great life changing plan - but go to have a walk, collect rocks or leaves and have a talk. Talk then and there. Not later via Facebook or iMessages.
Get used to it.
Life is going to be taken away anyways. But so far it's yours. You have the power.

Get used to yourself.
You need to talk to yourself. Find out what do you want.
That doesn't mean in a public place. But oh well, why not! Go to a park and have a conversation with yourself. Sit down. Start talking. And listen.
We always think what we want to be. But please have a chat and find out who you already are. Take some time to... I don't know.... find out what you like. What you like to listen, where would you really like to go or what kind of person shares your vibes. What ever you find out - Make yourself aware of that.
Get used to it.
Let yourself know what's your favourite colour, meal or even breathing pattern. Get to know yourself first, then see if you want to change the amazing person you already are.

Get used to trying.
Don't have high expectations on yourself. You were born with nothing. And you don't know a person unless you talk to them.
But have high standards. That one night out might ruin your work tomorrow. Make sure if you want to go. Stay in... or go and be with the ones who love you and who you adore. Or dump the ones who don't have the same spirit standards as you. Or the ones who always keep hurting you. Or call the one who you really miss - just to let him or her know that you still have them on your mind. Have high standards. It's not your mistake that you sometimes mis-read people. You at least gave them a CHANCE. You are awesome because of that.
Get used to your decisions.
But after finding out the real deal - be connected with your standards and what you deserve.

Be always a bit more. Comparing to yourself, not others. Be more braver, give more chances, take more time to yourself, laugh a bit more with friends. Find always something more that excites you, deserves you or makes you happy. Be a bit more you. Get used to being more. Doing more. Loving and living more.

A boat is always safe in the harbour, but that's not what boats are built for. Be more.