Do things just because you fear them to do. Or you don't. Be bold and brave; and don't think about winning. Don't be greedy. You don't have to make it by their eyes. You just do what you want to do - as much as you want to.
They are no judges. Not them. Not you.
Don't let them make you cautious.
You can be different every day. Embrace it. Let them be stuck where they can't find anymore happiness. Your happiness and their happiness is not the same. Don't define yourself with others. Define yourself with you.